Well we have a tentative date for a meetup with a guy who seems to have his shit together. Any advice on making sure we have a safe and enjoyable experience?

I’m super excited to see my wife with this guy. We’ve full swapped with couples and I love watching her with another man so that’s not an issue.

I am nervous about the safety aspect of the whole ordeal. I’ll be there either joining in or watching depending on the flow. We met him through Fetlife. He has pictures, a detailed description in his about me, has been cordial and respectful in all communication, etc.

We will meet at a bar and then go to a hotel room (his or ours?) after if that goes well.

Any other advice is appreciated! Thanks!