So, I meet a guy. We hit it off in the bedroom. After being together for two weeks, I develop a fissure on my forchette. Him being well endowed, I think it is due to sex. I make an appointment to be tested, a pap smear, and wellness exam. While talking to my doctor, all I can think about is insurance. How Western medicine throws the kitchen sink at a problem to find the solution. How I am possibly using my most vaginal muscle wrong. After obsessing about sexual health, mental health, I am no closer to understanding the cause. Tested for trichomonanosis herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea. Prescribed antiviral meds. No calls back from gyno. After meds, very itchy but reducing in size. Reading on Reddit led me to others w/similar problems. Not on birth control. Others said a bad yeast infection. Am obsessed about living in this part of my body. Could I be using my muscles wrong? Is it mental health ?