Hi,

I’m looking for something different than a one time hook up. To me, the hook ups are dangerous (safety and disease) and frankly not satisfying. I mean, sure, in the moment it may feel “physically” good but the whole thing is transactional, cold, empty, not satisfying.

I am new to exploring this and want to find ONE person to do this with. I’m not talking about changing my life or yours…..simply exclusivity for mutual pleasure on an ongoing basis.

About me: clean cut corporate type, athletic and fit, 44, educated and humble, sane and respectful, no drugs and no smoking.

About you: humble, athletic or reasonably fit, smooth, no drugs or smoking, adventurous, willing to go at this slowly.

How I’d love for this to play out: - we dm on here for a while - we build rapport and get to know each other’s desires - maybe we do a voice or video call on an encrypted app to see what we look like - meet somewhere public for a coffee or drink, with zero expectations of doing anything, just to see what the vibe/chemistry is like between us. - go from there as long as we are both comfortable

I realize all the above may be a pipe dream. I’ve been searching for a while and ready to explore with the right person.