I'm a 35 year old white blue collar Daddy, I'm 6'2, bald, bearded, tattooed, have a beer belly, I basically look like a lumberjack 24/7 and until you get to know me I look like I probably have some problematic politics (you know the type). I'm a hopeless romantic and a Dominant possessive lover. I have always loved boys who say screw gender norms and decide to be pretty, delicate, beautiful and sensitive. I have always dreamed of finding a cute boy who is as much into guys like me (older redneck bears) as I am into them and falling head over heels for each other. I know Reddit is a long shot but it couldn't hurt to try and find someone here right?.

I am looking for a boy young enough to be my son who is attracted to older rough around the edges hillbilly looking white bears. I'm looking for a pretty boy who likes to fully embrace his feminine side with everything from the way he looks to his interests and hobbies, idk why but it's just more attractive in a boy than it is in a woman for me and I love seeing a dude go against societal norms so it always gets my heart fluttering. I'm looking for the kind of guy who likes feeling safe and protected and submissive, the kind of boy who enjoys being treated like a princess and adored by his Daddy. Someone who fantasizes about being dominated by a guy who could break him if he wanted and maybe has some daddy issues. A boy who likes to be dressed up in lingerie and pretty outfits and isn't afraid to go out looking like the prettiest bitch at the ball.

I am very much your typical older redneck guy, I work in construction, never went to college, and spent my 20's partying, drinking, doing drugs (I only smoke weed now a days), and chasing women. I'm into the usual stuff you would expect like going shooting, off roading, fishing, camping, playing and watching football etc. I play guitar, I have a small suburban farm with chickens, I collect vinyl, and love long distance cycling/bike packing. Ive been told I'm a very mellow person and that I'm easy to talk to and open up to and that I'm surprisingly emotionally intelligent. I'm definitely the kind of guy who likes to talk all night and love getting to know someone. I'm very much a "let's get drunk, lay in the grass, and look at the stars" kind of guy who is liable to take you on random adventures because I wanted to find a good view while I smoke a joint. Late night trips to the beach and early morning sunrises are my shit and I'm definitely a night owl.

Sexually, I'm a Dom, I love being bigger and stronger than my partner and using that size difference and strength to dominate them physically. I love a combination of bullying the masculinity out of you and praising you for being feminine and submissive. If you couldn't already tell I'm very into forced feminization and love Daddy Dom little girl/boy play. I love when my partner intentionally acts bratty or gives me a reason to discipline them and will spank, choke, and slap them until they behave themselves. I have a free use and CNC kink and love when my partner enjoys pleasing/being used by me. Im also turned on by the idea of sharing my partner with other guys but I've never actually experimented with that.

I'd like to start online, chat, send memes back and forth, flirt, tease, talk about our days, maybe even play some games together, and really get to know each other. I don't care where you are located as long as you are open to the possibility of eventually meeting up someday or even relocating if we really end up liking each other. I'm definitely looking for my boywife so I'm going into this with a ltr in mind and I'm ok with a long distance relationship until we eventually figure things out. I've had some meaningful friendships and relationships that started online in the past so I've got a good feeling about doing things this way. I appreciate you taking the time to read all of this and can't wait to hear from you.