Welcome, let's get straight into it!

Who am I?

I’m just a random guy on the internet among the sea of other guys looking for a special connection during these trying times, please god when do these trying times stop. But in all seriousness, physically I'm 5ft9 (1.75m), short brown hair and eyes, good looking (even if I do say so myself). I like to keep in shape during summer as I love the sun, usually cycling or walking in the countryside, but hibernate during winter.

From a personality perspective I’m an introvert, much prefer 1-2-1 conversations but I’m not shy, happy to get involved it just takes more energy. I’m university educated and currently work in data engineering, I have an extremely logical mindset as I’m always trying to solve problems in my day to day life. In my spare time I enjoy gaming, reading about politics, cycling, hurting women, walking in the countryside, going on mini-adventures etc..

I’m happy to talk more about myself with someone interested in what I have to offer but I’ll leave it at that for now.

What am I after?

Specifically I’m after a female submissive who is intelligent (bonus points for those hard science degree types), aged between 22-36, has a silly maturity to her, and is in reasonably good shape e.g. they can walk for 10 miles without any major issue. Comfortable with video/pictures/voice once they feel they trust me and are open to eventually meeting up in person.

I just want to address the age and maturity criteria, age isn’t that important to me, hence the rather large range, I’m more attracted to someone who is mature but with a hint of silliness, someone who knows how to behave at a funeral but who can and will laugh their panties off at a stupid dick joke, but not at the same time.

From a kink perspective I’m after a woman who is open minded and willing to try new things both sexual and non-sexual. Any level of experience is fine, I’m happy to go slow with those inexperienced, or faster with those who know what they want. I’m after a woman who is comfortable with orgasm control and denial, as this is a pretty hard requirement from me, it’s my number one kink and something I love to do. I’m not going to list off a number of different kinks as what we get up to will depend on what our negotiations result in.

What can I offer?

I think what I can offer is what any good Dominant should be ready and able to give, which is why writing this part feels a little silly to me as it should just be self explanatory but I’m going to say it anyway just so I’m absolutely clear.

Communication - I can promise you that I will always communicate honestly and openly about what I think and what I want, I will never lie to you and I will never ghost you.

Setting expectations - In kink, I think it’s extremely important to set everyone's expectations, as such I will make it my number one priority to ensure both of our expectations are clear and perfectly understood.

Guidance/Safe Space - I want to ensure that you enjoy your time, and to me that’s by making sure you feel safe at all times. As part of this I can also offer guidance if you are a little less experienced or just want someone to help you explore something new.

Pushing limits - I understand that one of the bigger aspects of kink is to push limits, and that is definitely something I can offer. I like to keep things interesting by always testing limits (only when agreed) to see just how far I can push someone mentally and physically as that is all part of the fun.

Confidentiality - I’ve played with a number of people in my life, taken videos and pictures and I’ve given all of them the same promise I give now. I will never share anything you share with me even if this arrangement comes to a hostile end, nothing you share will ever be seen by anyone other than myself. That is a guarantee.

Other things I can offer is my personal style of play. For example, I like to set challenges, I mentioned orgasm control, one challenge might be to cum 5 times a day for a week, to some that might be impossible, to others it might be an easy challenge, it all depend on the person.

In terms of a kink list, I’m into pretty much anything, however, hard limits are extreme age play, scat, and blood play.

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I’m sure there is much I’ve missed from this post but it’s getting a bit long, so if you have any questions please ask and I look forward to hearing from you.