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I was friends with a guy for a little over a year. We had both said from the beginning that it should remain platonic. But being both single and lonely things did end up getting sexual pretty early on. We got really close, met all the important people in each others lives. I started catching feelings and had high hopes for a potential relationship. I finally sucked up the courage to ask for a date. He said yes. When the day came I was on cloud nine. We met for dinner, but he was acting weird. We decided to go to a movie after, and on the way there I brought up the elephant in the room. So, are we a couple now? No. I was hurt, and confused. Why would he agree to go on a date if he wasn’t interested in dating? He told me he was tired of having this conversation with me. And that he was sorry if he led me on. I didn’t take it well, and was depressed for a few weeks. We both have our own issues to work on, and decided to stop talking while we focus on ourselves. (Blocked each others numbers and social media). I know this could never result in a healthy relationship. But even as I get over my heart break I still miss him terribly as a friend. And with no means of contacting each other I’m not sure how one of us could ever reach out. I don’t know if this can ever be salvaged, or if I should even want it to be. He caused me a lot of pain, and I should be mad but instead I just miss him.
TLDR; was rejected by a friend, trying to move on but wondering if the friendship is truly dead.
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