The closest thing in my area to a place where sexuality is welcomed is our strip clubs. One strip club is generally okay with foot stuff if the dancer is okay with it. But I tried a new one today and a dancer tricked me into giving her way too many dollars after she said we were doing foot stuff. Closed the door and was like “if you wanna touch my feet it’s an extra three hundred dollars” like some straight up predatory business tactics shit. And then the girl before her ended up being cool about it but also somehow manipulated even more dollars out of me. If they say they don’t want their feet touched, I don’t push. But that’s also the only thing I have interest in forking over for is feet. She went from us having a cool casual conversation to her scamming me and then telling me to get the fuck out no refunds and I’m just some fat awkward dude wasn’t trying to start any problems or send any aggressive or pushy vibes. I just wish people were more honest. This certain strip club rule is no touching but most of the time behind closed doors they don’t really care as long as they’re getting dollars. In bigger cities there are locations dedicated to people with foot fetishes. Here I’m scouring the internet and fetlife and whatever else I can get and have no luck. Not only here venting my frustrations but also a warning to everybody that suggests going to a strip club for quick and easy foot action. I got ripped for like 400 tonight which I didn’t even really have to spend on feet in the first place much less leaving with little to nothing.