I’ve written before about the stages of life you will go through as you submit to the idea of being a pleasure toy for men. You can find those posts if you want to.

This particular post is for those heading back to college, or off to college for the first time. It’s a huge change, and allows you certain freedoms that you’ve probably lacked to this point. The following isn’t one size fits all, but is a good starting place for most.

In no particular order:

1. You’ll (probably) be living apart from your parents. You’ll have at most a roommate or two to negotiate your living space with. This means you can fuck more or less any time, in a relatively safe and discreet place.

2. You’ll be at parties, including with much more experienced men. Seniors love fucking freshman girls. If this is what you want you’ll have no problem getting it. They’ll either be good at it or selfish. If you’re a slut you probably won’t know or care about the distinction.

3. Alcohol. In the US you’re likely underaged to consume alcohol. People do at college, and no one really cares. Some advice you might not expect from me: don’t get too drunk in new places and situations. You can just pretend. Your fuckbuddy will be drunk, and his inhibitions lowered. That means you just need to play along and do what he wants. I promise, you can choose to be a slut and blame it on alcohol after the fact to preserve public face. No one monitors how much you drink.

4. Buy a dildo or vibrator if you don’t have one. Use it.

5. At some point you’ll masturbate with your roommate sleeping nearby. They might pretend not to hear you, but they do. See what comes of it.

6. Try out girls. Boys will cheer if you kiss one at a party, but you’re welcome to take a full blown lesbian to bed. Guys will think it’s hot if you tell them about it.

7. Suck a lot of cock. More than you’re probably thinking, and not just as foreplay. Give head in the bathroom, the laundry room, the library.

8. Let men tell you how to please them. Your high school boyfriend probably didn’t make you kiss his asshole; a college guy might tell you to stick your tongue in it. Do as you’re told.

9. Use your newfound freedom and private living space to masturbate, edge, and take nice pictures. Your body will likely never be prettier than it is now. Share it.

10. If you’re a genuine newby and you’re scared, don’t forget that there are plenty of men online who can coach you through slutting yourself out. Don’t forget to be grateful to them.

I look forward to your progress in the academic year ahead.