Hello femdom people. So I've been dreaming of a femdom D/S relationship for years, but I've never tried to find a domme because I just don't feel good enough as a sub/slave.

I've read a lot of femdom forums and the feeling seems to be that a lot of men just don't measure up to what dommes want. And sadly I suspect that I am the same as the rest.

This is not a pity post. I wish all women in this kink all the best and that they find what they're looking for. People don't owe me a state-mandated mistress or anything like that.

I wish I would try though, you know. But I don't want to be on the pile of disappointments. It makes me kind of sad when I read these posts about guys ghosting or lieing and stuff.

For anyone who has similar problems with their self-image, how did you get over it and do the plunge, so to speak?