I am still figuring this out for myself. I recently had a wonderful (albeit short) dynamic with a Mistress/Goddess online. It was going good but I got in my head about the online-only world that we created. I missed physical connection, which is something I desperately need IRL. Long story short - that's over (but if you're reading this 😘).

Moving on, and hoping to find an IRL mommy/princess domme for a kink driven dynamic. I am sapiosexual and I am attracted to intelligence above all. I love witty banter and being "schooled." I can hold my own, and I will likely surprise you with the depth of conversation and the expanse of topics I can easily discuss. I don't mind small talk but I want deep, intense, conversation. I also want vulnerability. I want to make you happy, I was us both to feel loved and cared for.

My vanilla interests are: music, writing, poetry, movies and Tv shows. I like to cook and bake. I love pizza and espresso. I enjoy going to shows and being outdoors. I work full time and am financially stable.

My kink interests are: Submission, breast worship, ANR, Chastity, orgasm control, tease and denial, p*ssy worship, bondage, light slapping (getting slapped that is), I need praise and encouragement. Tell me i'm a good boy while touching me and I go to heaven. Cuddles. I'm developing an interest in anal stimulation but this would be SLOW going for me. I am open to exploring other things too. I want to make you happy obviously. In fact making you happy is a huge turn on.

Limits: findom, gross bodily fluids, spit play, cuckolding, public humiliation (although in private I kind of like a little bit when accompanied with pleasure and praise after). Physical pain or permanent marks.

My ideal domme is...well, intelligent and interesting. Age, body type, ethnicity aren't all that important. That said someone in the same place in their life as I would be better match than someone just starting out (you know what I mean?). I am a young soul...I know this about myself and I tend to get interested in older souls regardless of their age so....idk. Someone in Irvine or Fullerton (orange county area). I want to make my domme happy and serve her in all ways.

I understand that physical attraction is a real thing so if you would like me to send a picture I am happy to do so if requested. But I'm 5'8", blue eyes, starting to get that salt and pepper thing going in my hair.

Well, if you've read this far...THANKS. I hope to hear from you.