So to start I'd ask you please read the whole post before messaging me, I'm not interested in findom's or giving tributes and I'm looking for a d/s long term monogamous relationship with someone whose either Dominant or dom leaning though for me sex isn't the focus more of a fun secondary aspect.

SFW What I'm Looking For: I'm looking for a partner who for a serious long term relationship that's monogamous, I'm not interested in open relationships. I'm hoping to find someone whose equally easy going, honest, open minded and welcomes open communication rather conflict. I love having a partner whose got a great sense of humor and enjoys generally teasing and being playful, I'd also like for them to be open and willing to share in our personal interests and hobbies while also sharing those that we have in common. I'm a gaming nerd so would love it if you did as well, the nerdier the better! I would also love a partner open to nerdy stuff like cosplay and I've been wanting to get into airsoft as well. As for anything d/s or FLR, outside of anything sexual I'd like there to be a slight power dynamic but still built around mutual respect, maybe something as simple as me taking care of the home on request or simply just being teased as the sub/pet but I'm flexible. As for physical interests I prefer partners more on the thinner athletic side, being taller then me is a plus but not needed. I'd also like a partner who doesn't smoke (I also Do NOT like weed) and maybe occasionally drinks.

SFW Personal Aspects: I live in New York, SI and I'm a bit of a nerd whose into gaming, tech and as a hobby I work on my PC and mess around with photoshop. I've always loved geeky stuff like collectibles, statues things like that, some of my favorite movies are Terminator, Hot Fuzz, Starship troopers, and watchmen to name a few. I have been getting into manga and anime as of late with the last couple I've watched/read being Akame Ga Kill, Code Geass, Tokyo Ghoul, and Gate. I've also been interested in cosplay but never had the chance to get into it though I'd like to. I do enjoy crossdressing behind closed doors for fun and it honestly makes me feel cute, I am curious about experimenting with this really hoping for a partner whose cool with this! As for gaming a few of my favorites are Resident Evil, Death Stranding, Metal Gear Solid, Hearts of Iron, Doom, Fallout, Arma 3, Pokemon and Payday. I used to work in animal care, but my love for animals never changed. In my past I've had dog's, hamsters, guinea pigs, fish, frogs, bearded dragon, armadillo lizard, some finches and parakeets (though I love cockatoo's). Currently I work as a salesman for verizon but I am also studying for my license as an HVAC engineer! I do enjoy a dark sense of humor and I don't let things get to me easily, in the end of the day I just look to get a laugh going for everyone around me and I'm often a big goof. I am also the type of klutz to often hit my head, whether it's on a desk or anything above me at the time. I try to be as laid back as possible and focus more on open communication and honesty. I enjoy being affectionate and snuggly at times as well. I'm also straightedge, I don't smoke or take anything and I very rarely drink if this is of interest at all. I'm an open book so please feel free to ask me anything!

NSFW: I will admit I don't have much experience but I'm willing to experiment though I there's plenty that I am into such as sissification, feminization, bondage, toys, JOI, TPE, chastity, some punishment/training, pet play, spanking, pegging, some degrading and latex to name some. I'm not into anything extreme like sounding, or anything that would lead to bleeding. I do also crossdress (it's one of my bigger kinks along with bondage and pet play) but currently not publicly, more so for fun and cause sometimes I just like feeling cute but I'm not effeminate in my speech or mannerisms. I absolutely love it when my partner dresses in a dominant manor for and or out of sex! If it's of any importance, I'm thin and about 5' 6" last I checked. I do enjoy the idea of "not being able to say no" during play, realistically we would talk out what's ok and what's not prior for both of us and anything "forceful" would just be more roleplay then anything else. As for talking about anything sexual, I don't normally like being the one to initiate that in chat simply cause I don't want to come off as a creep or sex being the only thing I'm interested in. If it's something you want to talk about I please ask you be the one to start it.

Over all any of this interests you please feel free to message me, I do ask you start the message with some details about yourself just saying hi doesn't give much to work with. I am also happy to talk off reddit and even regularly if your able to. I have snapchat and discord if those work. I work 40 hours a week so if I don't respond I'll respond soon as I can!

Hope To Hear From You Soon!