So Vday is tomorrow, always been a bullshit corporatized "holiday." And if youre here then you still are going through some sort of stuggle. Whether youre just beginning your grieving or are somewhere along the path, this is what im telling myself to get through it: its just another Tuesday. My ex will surely be spending it with her new bf who she got with barely a day after breaking up with me (3.5 years we were together. I was her first real valentine.) But fuck them. Dont hold onto any anger, thats not moving on but tying you down. Remember the pain they put us through, but dont dwell on it. Use it to not give a fuck because they dont deserve it anymore. They pushed you out of their lives, dont let them take up any more of yours. Remind yourself what they did, why they did it, and get on with the rest of the day.

Remember, but dont dwell.