I’m new to the sub, someone may have addressed this before or y’all may tell me I’m completely wrong. I welcome all comments and criticism!

BUT does anyone else think Ray is an absolute POS? The show is so funny, but I think sometimes he is extremely rude to Debra and frankly (ha) I don’t see why she would put up with it.

He’s constantly lying about Debra to his family to make her look bad. Ex: when he can’t manage the checkbook he tells everyone Debra has a shopping problem.

He doesn’t help out with the kids. Ex: Debra goes on a camping trip with the kids, Ray says he’s staying home to do work but Debra comes back early and finds him golfing.

He is just rude to Debra a lot. Ex: he makes up the lie that the other woman at PTA said Debra dresses like a tramp.

Ray’s rude to everyone else too, but I feel like he’s extra d*ckish to Debra. Thoughts?