Hello friends. My wife (sub) and I tried to take our light d/s (not high protocol) dynamic 24/7 a couple weeks ago. It didn't work, but we learned from it. We are going to aim for a weekend dynamic and see what happens.

The wife will go through phases where I can't get my cock out of her mouth and other times where the look on her face when I tell her what I want speaks volumes (negatively). Since I have the weekend I want to combine our trance sessions with blow job enthusiasm and enthusiasm to submit in general.

I feel this is a larger hurdle to overcome as it's not something that she readily agrees to. (I have consent to do this covertly or overtly - she kinda likes not knowing what triggers or effects our sessions create). One caveat, we've recently committed to a couple swinging events (first-time) so I would like this training to pay longer dividends in case she gives the green light for play with others. (I want the swinging to be her choice, not my influence, but a little residual interest in blowing is helpful

So, friends, how would you structure this? Just lay it out there and see what sticks, or would you incrementally phase in certain things? It can certainly go longer than the weekend, she'll be more "pliable" after agreeing to submit fully for the weekend though, but we play sporadically during the week too. I can probaly stretch this out for a couple months of weekends if I wanted...

Thanks in advance!