After being with multiple men who were always very dominant in bed and never attentive to my needs, I’ve developed a deep interest in Femdom.

Now, I find it difficult to go back to a more conventional relationship dynamic.

I want a guy who’ll always be thinking about my pleasure. A guy who’ll sneak into the bathroom during work hours just to send me a picture of his underwear full of precum, letting me know I’m on his mind. That’s basically my ideal type. Someone who puts my pleasure first without expecting anything in return.

I’m also really into denial right now. I want to keep you from watching any porn so you know I’m your only source of release. I believe that too much exposure to porn messes with your brain, so denial helps build up anticipation, making even a normal interaction feel like ecstasy.

I also enjoy being in control. Giving JOI, telling you how to stroke it, how to play with your foreskin, and setting tasks and rules for you to follow throughout the day. It’s an everyday thing for me.

I’m not interested in guys who are just trying to get something in return. I’ve had many encounters with men who pretend to be submissive but rush through tasks and refuse to do anything that’s mildly challenging, just to get what they want from me. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely obsessed with pleasuring me in ways my exes never did, to the point where their own pleasure derives from mine.

About me: I’m a white Brazilian who’s really into fitness. I’ve been working out since I was 16, so I have a very fit figure. I’m 5'7" with long brown hair. I’m always busy with work, the gym, and running errands with my roommates. So I’m looking to build a long-term connection with someone who would make my day better by discussing sexual experiences and sending things they think I’d enjoy or that would turn me on.

I’m just asking you to send a picture right away. This isn’t a monetary transaction, so attraction will be key for me.