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Worried about hurting peoples’ feelings
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I’ve been trying ENM since my divorce. I like being honest about where I am in my healing process with people, and know I’m not ready for commitment.
I’m forthright from the get go, but I know the women I am seeing are still developing feelings. I care about them, and I don’t want to hurt them.
I try to check in with people “hey are you ok? Thank you for meeting me where I am.”
For the most part, it’s been a beautiful, honest way to get close to people. But I can’t shed the guilt that this is something women seem to be tolerating more than they want. I just know monogomy isn’t for me right now.
Any advice?
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Any reason you arent focusing on women who have already chosen ENM for themselves?
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That's unusual. Sure its no somewhat in your imagination?