Help! I am new to the enm world, and have been very happily seeing an enm married man for a few weeks now... But it seems like I have also matched on tinder with his wife's fwb. Also: he and his wife want to hang out with me together, since things seem to be going so well as friendship goes. But... Now we add in her fwb and me possibly having a connection?? Yes, we are in a more rural area, so it will happen. But also, kind of cool that we all seem to be hitting it off with each other thus far?

My question.. as a woman.. my priority is always the wife. So should I prioritize meeting wife over her fwb/my match or visa versa? Thanks for any input.. I can answer any questions and provide details.

Edit because autocorrect