Hi everyone! I've (32 f) been out as bi for a couple of years now. My partner (33m) and I started exploring ENM last year and have had a few experiences with partners together and separately.

Most of these people are people we've met on apps and are also ENM/parterned/curious and so it's been very casual and fun, but I also had a hookup with my friend from college who I've known for years. (And we used to make out in college so it wasn't that big a surprise we were both still into each other).

Cut to last Saturday, I was at a party and met this girl (28f) I was so so so drawn to. I engaged her in a conversation with one of my best friends and I, the three of us hit it off great and made plans to go to a dance class together. My partner met her and they vibed, and he's very aware of how I feel about it her haha.

BUT I've never flirted / made a move on someone I just met? I also don't know if she's A) queer B) into me and C) okay with the fact that I'm in a relationship. We have plans to hang out with my other friend but I'd love to hang out with her solo and test the vibes. I have so many butterflies about her, so any tips would be appreciated!