My husband and I are ENM. We’ve only pursued other partners together, whether it was couples or other women. We’ve been married 17 years and I asked him to start this journey with me. Fast forward a few years into this new dynamic (that our relationship has been thriving in) and a female vanilla friend, who’s divorcing her wife, comes on to us. I was flattered but ultimately not into her. He was. She hasn’t been intimate in over 2 years. So after much discussion, I agreed to let him pursue a casual sex relationship with her. Her and I also spoke (at her request)and I explained some boundaries but said everything would be between them. Now I think I’ve made a mistake… I feel as if she wants more than what I was willing to give. She doesn’t have any experience and with the emotions she’s having as she’s separated, I’m worried she needs way more than sex. And my husband, although he’s been very respectful of my feelings and our discussed boundaries, I’m not sure he sees some red flags that she wants more time and affection….. I just don’t know if this was an ideal situation. Any gentle advice would be appreciate.