Good morning all- I just found this community this morning. My ex and I separated in November and divorced was final in May. I can say hands down this is the toughest thing I have ever gone through. There was so much I did wrong during my marriage. ( I never cheated or anything remotely close to that.. I was always loyal as was she) But the marriage is over because of me- I could have done so much better, in many ways. Don't get me wrong, I do not think I was bad 100% of the time.... but I've learned so much about myself. Anyway/ I could vent for days about her and how hard I tried to get her back over the last 9 months. I finally back off last week and haven't looked back. Thanks for listening!