I'm a 42-year-old man from New Zealand (obviously) I'm your standard reddit nerd. I love gaming, I love cats all pets and I'm actually pretty content with my life.

I'm looking for a normal friendship - tell me about your day. Show me your pet pics (regardless of any responses - If anyone sends me pet pics to my inbox, I consider that a win) and complain about your job or study. The sort of things you do with your normal friends. The side is I want us to both be comfortable to share nudes with each other while doing so.

I want you to also feel comfortable with me. If you're not up to showing face with nudes - I'm ok with that. I'm just some random guy on the internet. Trust is earned not given. I hope we get there eventually, but lets make it when we are both comfortable. If your not in a space where you can send nudes, I still want to hear from you! Thats the true meaning of friendship :)

I have zero desire for sex or sexting, but there is something beautiful about the trust that sending nudes to each other brings. Its a good feeling when someone finds me attractive enough, and trusts me enough to want to send and receive nudes with me. We all want to be wanted right? This is one way i get to feel it.

I don't want sexting, and I don't want compulsion - just casual. Are we talking and it's time for a shower? No need to stop sending pics while we continue. Good morning pic with bits out because we sleep naked. Perfection.

So don't hold back. Give this a try. Worst that can happen is we don't hit it off (which is ok) and we move on. Please also be above 25. If you're the exception to the rule you'll know it. If you have a light post history tell me a little about yourself. Keen to get off reddit and exchange pics when we can.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon :)