Married with 3 adult boys. Complacent in my marriage but missing the spark as my wife has lost much of her desire for sex. I am not looking to blow anything up whatsoever just simply find that addition to my life.

Our sex is very vanilla and rare we even have intimacy, and when we do, it feels like I am begging for it.

I crave the passion, the naughtiness, the sneaking round, and the thrill.

I am new and looking for someone also new to doing this. Would be great to experience this for the first time with someone .. it’ll warm my cold feet and give my heart a bright glow of passion.

I am looking for someone in the same situation with a lot to lose and understands why I can’t just leave my life and find someone else and why an affair seems like the only option.

I am looking for someone that does not have multiple affair partners and is also looking for discretion as I want.

I am not a telegram user, nor do I plan to sign up and use it. It’s not my preference and I will not change my mind. So if you do not use Snapchat or are willing to join Snapchat please save your time and don’t bother sending a message

I am also looking to initially exchange images, so id rather the first message be

Little bit about you- age, situation, kids? And a pic, Yes I’ll send one back, and yes you’re welcome to delete as soon as I’ve seen the pic.

Please if these don’t suit you, or appeal to you, save both our times and do not message.

I like the idea of sneaking around.. playing while our partners don’t know.. I’m into the naughty snaps.. the sensual messages the erotic fun. I want to hide out in the bathroom while you tell me what you want to do to me. I want to have that thrill again.

I’m average for my age with dark hair, 5ft11 - hazel eyes and hopefully will give you a good time I guess.