So, I (28M) have been with my girlfriend *Angie* (28F) for 9 years. Her best friend *Jessica* (27F), who I’ve always found insanely attractive has been struggling lately. Her boyfriend *Andrew*(28M) has a chronic illness and has been bedridden for over a year, so their sex life is non-existent.

Jessica confided in Angie about her frustration and that its take a toll on her, implying she needs more than toys can provide. Shockingly, Angie told me she’s okay with Jessica joining us in the bedroom — a purely physical thing to help Jessica out. They established there would be no kissing, lights off, no emotions. I would just penetrate and go down on her and maybe do some other little things she might like. She even talked to Andrew about it, and he’s fine with it because he feels guilty he can’t meet her needs.

Here’s where I’m stuck. I’m obviously excited because I’ve always been into Jessica, but I played it completely cool (the only reason this idea got pitched to me was because I’ve always hid how attracted I am to her) Would it be out of line for me to try other stuff? For example I have an ass eating kink and Jessica’s is incredible, I also love rough sex, should I try go for it or just leave it alone? What about getting a blowjob, would that be too much? as far as I know Andrew has always been quite vanilla. So should I stick strictly to helping Jessica, as Angie intended? I'm also really nervous my gf will notice I’m enjoying it too much.

I don’t want to mess things up, but the idea of this has me spiraling. A guy like me would never in a million years get a chance with a girl like Jessica. I know I shouldn’t be this excited but I honestly can’t stop thinking about it and getting aroused.