About nine months ago my first relationship ended. It's been a bumpy process of trying to move on. Some days I feel this "hurry" to find someone new because I really miss having that companionship. Today I realized I'm insecure about being single - insecure and a little scared to be alone (for the time being).

At some point I want to be in a relationship again. Yet I can't quite get it through my own head that it's okay to be single for now. My self worth is not measured by being a "boyfriend." Tough when you see all your Facebook friends hooking up and getting married tho.

Has anyone been through something similar? How did you overcome this needy-ness?