To all the members of this sub that are WOMEN, who are the LL in your relationship, this question is for you.

I'm just curious to know if any of you are dealing with a medical issue that is getting in the way of your libido. Anything minor or major. If so, how is your HL partner coping?

Is your partner backing off and not asking for sex? Is your partner asking for alternatives (HL, BJ, etc.)?

Is your partner just holding in their frustration?

When your partner asks about alternatives, how do you respond?

Have you offered alternatives without your partner having to ask? Were those alternatives physically satisfying for you? If they weren't, was it mentally satisfying to at least know you were taking care of their partner anf making them feel good?

Did your partner become resentful and start doing anything inappropriate?

Just trying to drum up some discussion, to help cope woth what I'm going through.