The time has recently arrived where I realize I will need to — at some point in the beginning of a relationship (however short) — ask potential romantic partners what their sexual capabilities are.

Men, when would you prefer a potential sex partner ask you if you can perform intercourse?

Women, how has this gone for you? Dos or Don’ts to share?

Edit: it’s interesting how some folks are reading this as if ED is a dealbreaker. It isn’t necessarily, and it isn’t for me. But, I prefer to know before we’re naked.

I have a mild physical limitation to take into account, and it’s important to me that I share that before I’m in excruciating pain for 45 minutes. If that makes me rude or crazy — hey, I’ve been called worse.