I'm getting real sick and tired of people not listening to me or respecting my boundaries/expectations. I posted a personal ad (that I'm now regretting) so I've been receiving a lot of messages. Some have been nice, even if we end up not being compatible, while others have been odd and aggressive. I'm wondering what else I can do to establish clearer boundaries? I tried to be direct in my ad for what I'm looking for and hoping to find, but some of them clearly don't read it. Some of them can't even take no for an answer. I'm also really direct with vetting questions because I know what I want, and in the past I've settled for people who still end up hurting me.

I'm already halfway to giving up my littlespace altogether and even looking for a caregiver. Does anyone (little or daddy) have any advice on what else I can do when engaging with potential daddies?