Hey there,

First of all, sorry for my English, as a French this is not my first language.

I'm kind in a middle of an identity crisis right now. I have always been into BDSM, as a Dom, ans especially into control games. I always have imagined that as "Doll playing", whith dress-up games, and/or, well, playing with it, telling her how to behave, while taking care of it and ensuring her wellbeing. My partners until now has always been quite childish, even though playing with them was sexualy explicit and non vanilla.

Now, I discover DDlg and, from reading some subreddits, I really like the imagery, fashion style, activities, behaviors, and I wonder : Am I a "caregiver" even if I always thought it was "doll playing"? Is DDlg compatible with, like, asking pleasure pictures during the day, demanding access to her daily journal, or even checking her activities? Constantly trying to keep a "link", h24?

In short, are controling kinks compatibles with DDlg?

I'm not sure if I'm clear, I would happilly precise my thought if necessary.

Thanks for your answers.