I've been researching multiple sources on ddlg, daddy doms, and age regressors. These ARE NOT my writings, but I do want to know your opinions on them! I have the links for which sites posted which, but I don't think outside links are allowed.

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If you agree, disagree or have any thoughts on them put which number in the comments! It will be insanely helpful for a newbie like me!

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1. I read that "Littles should always ask for permission like a dependent child would," is that how it's seen? A dependent child?
2. Conversations are more enjoyable when she's told to sit on his lap, really?
3. Taking the responsibilities of the little, is that what it is?
4. Softer approach to domination was brought up quite a bit. What does that mean?
5. usually believes in his Little Girl is more than she herself does, do all Daddy's believe in them more?
6. often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. Do all Daddies help them become more?
7. He respects and accepts her for who she is and who she aspires to be — supporting her character development, helping her to value substance over superficiality. - Is this guidance? Or support?
8. Because of his experience and concern, he observes and recognizes her faults without judging or criticizing her. My only experience is silence, but does that equal not judging or criticizing?
9. She is free to call him 24X7, anytime day or night, to reach out when she needs his support and comfort. Is that normal? Are they there for support and comfort?
10. As her mentor and teacher, he demonstrates by example and by explicit verbal communications priorities and perspectives that help her better understand and learn form her past and current life experiences. Is this true?
11. the informed Daddy DOM is able show his Little Girl new insights, new ways of seeing her options, He is able to nurture her in ways she has never been nurtured, and to be there for her in ways she has never shared or experienced before. Is this true?
12. He and she know they are especially blessed when they achieve shared joy and happiness when she sees herself and her abilities through his eyes and is motivated in new ways that both inspire her and take her to new levels of self-confidence. Does all littles get to see herself through his eyes? Is that normal?
13. The Daddy Dom serves as the primary protector of his Llttle Girl from both psychological and sociological stress, as well as physical or economic threats. Whether these fears are based on perceived or real dangers, or on potential or actual negative people, he takes her concern seriously. How does he protect her from those things?
14. As is true with any DOM/sub relationship, there will be time when the submissive acts out her fears or behaves in ways that she knows are not in her interests and may even be self-sabotaging. She anticipates some form of discipline to bring things back into perspective and learn how to avoid repeating negative behaviors
15. Daddy DOMs prefer to support and encourage their Little Girls and when possible to avoid the occasional need to impose discipline.In addition to teaching values and demonstrating tough love it is important for the Girl to learn that bad habits like emotional manipulation or not speaking her truth are toxic.
16. The respect for her Daddy DOM is critical to the integrity of the relationship and discipline for these kinds of actions is a necessary part of the growth of a quality relationship
17. Knowing that there will be consequences provides a form of stability a girl needs. Wise Daddies will not be excessively strict and will generate a punishment that fair and appropriate.
18. Daddy DOMs are there to give advise, answer her questions, help her keep calm, reduce her fears, increase her sense of security, and keep her grounded.
19. When the Little Girl’s life experiences are especially challenging and she may be moving through the dark times, her Daddy DOMS is reliable and there for her and able to draw on years of experience to offer advise that is dependable and solid as a rock.
20. For many Little Girls ther has never been some one consistent, steady and receptive available for their moments of doubt and fear. Sometimes physical exhaustion and/or emotional depression can sweep into her life and having access to her Daddy becomes a loving light at the end of the tunnel. He is able to help her face her fears, deal with the challenges and help her find her way back into a place of personal alignment and inner peace.
21. Learning about how to be her authentic self by living in the “now” and how to maintain a higher quality of life is one of the most important keys to a successful Daddy DOM/Little Girl relationship.
    
22. Learning that the journey is as important as the destination, and being mindful of the words she uses and actions she takes are valuable lessons learned from her Daddy DOM interaction.
    
23. Regardless of her age, professional accomplishments and/or financial status Daddy’s Girl is looking for and needs something only an enlightened Daddy DOM can provide.
24. It is an essential element — like air, water, food, shelter — the non judgmental unconditional love and protection provided her Daddy is a primordial need that nurtures her soul and frees her spirit to soar.
25. These are the types of people who have a lot of love and protection to offer to another person who regresses to a state of being immature, childish, in need of guidance, and special understanding.
26. They help guide a little through life, difficult situations, or adult encounters.
27. They offer advice and structure in some situations where the age regressor does not feel confident.
28. Their primary role is to nurture above all.
29. Often, they take on some adult responsibilities that their 'little' counterparts give them in trust.
30. They are more parental in personality and how they interact romantically with the affection they offer to their regressing partner.
31. Men are naturally attracted to youth and innocence, and having a little meets that need continuously. They will also have the satisfaction of having someone rely and dote on them, and counting on them to “fix it” when things get hard.
32. The sub becomes his “little” and relies on him emotionally, physically, and even sexually.
33. Similarly, littles are constantly seeking the praise and attention of their Daddy and will do their best to please him.
34. This is what I call a different state of consciousness. Suddenly, a slew of strong emotions arises. You almost feel like a child again.
35. the child is extremely sensitive. A crooked look can send the little heart tumbling into the abyss. Falling into Little Space in front of someone else requires a tremendous amount of trust.
36. You will prioritize learning about your little as thoroughly as you can as to deepen the care exchange potential as well as relationship compatibility.
37. You will have your little's best interest at heart when creating personalized (unique to them) rules for them, their life, and your relationship together.
38. You will not break or disallow contact out of anger, disappointment, frustration, or as punishment to your little.
39. You will do your best reassure, comfort, guide, and lead your little through tasks they may be uncomfortable or unsure of taking on, need help with doing, or have not learned yet to complete.
40. You will not abuse the power you have been given by your little. You will not spank, hit, slap, or abuse them out of anger, rage, or frustration. You will not purposely neglect their needs out of convenience. You will not abandon them when disagreements occur.
41. You will discuss important things with your little prior to making finalized decisions so that you can mutually agree upon the decision
42. You will keep your little safe from harm or danger. This includes emotional harm, physical danger, and moments they may fear. You will be their protector, guide, and comfort at all costs because they are important to you.
43. You will honor your word and promises, no matter how small, to your little to maintain respect and trustworthiness.
44. You will learn about your little prior to entering a potentially dangerous, damaging, hurtful, or frightening scene with them. You will have an understanding of their emotional and physical needs and limitations as well as personal desires.