Three categories.

Not all of you will fit one of them; that’s fine. If you’re in the “other” category in an interesting way, I’d love to hear about it.

So, who’s reading this post?

Thinking back over the comments and messages I’ve received, I can see three broad groups.

1) Experienced submissive, BDSM or BDSM-adjacent women. You revel in being lesser, and this is one of many places you come to get off on the feeling that you belong to someone else, that your purpose is service. Interestingly, in my experience these women comment less often publicly in this sub, though are more direct in their private messages.

2) Inexperienced women who either masturbate too much (the right amount?), or aren’t sexually confident. There’s comfort for them in believing that they can be “good” at sex by simply doing what they’re told. If you’re shameless enough and able to follow orders, you think that can make you sexy without a lot of experience in, you know, actually being sexy. This isn’t an insulting category, just a pattern I’ve observed. I’m not sure whether they’re aware of this fact about themselves or not.

3) My favorite category because of the naughty factor: older women. They’ve graduated from smutty romance novels to Reddit, and somehow tripped down a hole to find themselves here. This could really be two separate categories: the blushingly shy ones, and the ones who delight in the filth. Take older to mean whatever age you like; it’s more about stage of life than a number.

4) Other. Lots of fun and weird and sad women reading this for all kinds of reasons.

Which are you?

Edit: because it’s been asked, this poll is (to my knowledge) anonymous. I certainly can’t see who has voted, only the vote counts. Early lead for category 2.

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