So we have found the guy we were looking for that's compatible for both of us. We met him at a bar a few weeks ago, then went to his house a couple days a week and she fucked him. We went over again a couple days later for some dinner and they fucked again. We took a week off, but last week she went over alone and they fucked for a couple hours and she came home happy. We met Friday night at a bar to have some drinks and watch some live music outside. . After a few beers and the sun set I noticed his hand was under the table. The waitress noticed, too. We decided to head back to his place and she headed for the bathroom. Once he collected his blitzed friend he intercepted her on the way in and kissed her and gave her a hug on his way out. In public. We headed to his place and he fucked her again and we headed home. He came over Sunday and fucked her in our bed. It's been absolutely awesome from the beginning, and she's been happier and hornier than at any other time in this journey. Now to the point. Why is jealousy such a integral part of the lifestyle for somr people? I'm enjoying the ride, but it was hotter when I was waiting at home wondering what was happening. I find myself wondering if he maybe got it a little more, gave him a little more head, just got more of her than I did if it would be hotter. I've always had a thing for seeing women(especially attached) be free spirited and even promiscuous. Is jealousy (not like rage-inducing) a common desire for guys in the lifestyle?