My husband has been fantasizing about me being with another man for a couple years now… he likes for me to tell him about past experiences and he likes to hear about guys from my past with big dicks. We’ve been doing the dirty talk thing during sex and sometimes it leads to him suggesting that I actually fuck another guy for real. I’ve been sort of on the fence for a while but just the other day I ran into an ex while shopping and i happened to tell my husband about the encounter and last night while having sex he asked me if I want to fuck him again and I replied yes (which was partially true but in the moment I was just playing along with the dirty talk). After we finished, he suggested that I text my ex. I said I’ll think about it… and I’m thinking about it but what should I do? My husband really seems into this, but I worry that it could be disastrous.