(Qualifier: This all happened prior to the quarantine. It probably was for the best that we had to say time out for awhile to give us a chance to process everything that was happening).

I’m new to Reddit but have been lurking for a little while. I’m hoping by sharing some experiences I’ve had I might be able to get some feedback from other wives out there. I also posted this up in the Hotwife Lifestyle subreddit. It’s ok to cross post right?

My husband and I have had an active, hot sex life together since we first started dating. We both have matching sex drives. He’s tall, fit, strong and his cock feels amazing inside me. We would fantasize/ role play and have sex for hours. I often lost track at how many times he’d make me cum.

It didn’t take long before we started to dip our toes into sexy adventures with others as well. We talked a lot about rules (to the point of over communicating) and took things slow with some of our first swinging encounters. As a result they turned out to be some really fun experiences for us.

Quite a few months ago we decided to take one of our fantasies and turn it into reality. The plan was for my husband to restrain me to our bed and invite another man over to fuck me anonymously. My husband would set it all up, find the guy, do the meet/greet in advance and then invite him over. He knew the type of man that I liked. Tall, strong, smooth, slender...a sensual, respectful, charming man that knows how to handle a hot insatiable woman like myself. ;) I tend to be more dominant with others but can switch with my husband. That being said, I felt both tantalized and nervous about putting myself in such a vulnerable position. My husband had restrained me to our bed many times before and I LOVED it! But not with another man. So when that day came, I had a frenzy of butterflies in my stomach. After being restrained, my husband gently slid a blindfold over me and kissed my lips while whispering how much he loved me. A few minutes later I heard the knock at the front door and my husband left the room to go get our guest.

A moment or two later, I heard the bedroom door open again. I immediately had second thoughts as I heard our guest tell my husband how hot I looked laying on my back with my wrists and angles restrained. I struggled a bit but kept my mouth shut as I felt his hands start to gently slid up my thighs towards my hips. I quickly forgot about my nerves and fell deep into his touch. I knew my husband was in the room keeping me safe but admittedly it didn’t take long for me to forgot about him too. What that man did to my body for the next couple hours was like nothing I’ve experienced before. Wave after wave of pleasure and ecstasy swept over me and I just got lost in it. Somehow in the midst of our encounter together my blindfold slid over my head and as I looked up I saw my new lover was wearing a gold mask that hid his entire face. His toned shoulders and strong arms were glistening and the realization that I couldn’t see my new lovers face made my pussy even wetter. He threw the blindfold on the floor and I got to watch this super hot guy fuck me in ways I wouldn’t have to expected from anyone other than my husband.

He eventually left and I never got to see his face. My husband took off my restraints and fucked me some more. This time it felt different. We reconnected and talked about what the experience was like for us both. I told him how surprised I was by how much it turned me on. How incredibly good our guest’s cock felt inside me. We had initially talked about it being a one time experience but since it went so well my husband said he’d be willing to invite him back again.

After that second time, things progressed in some unexpected ways. The Gold Mask Man (I still don’t know his name nor have I seen his actual face) started to take on a more dominant role upon each encounter. But not just with me, with my husband too. For instance, the last time we were together he made my husband sit in the corner and watch while jerking his cock. He wasn’t allowed to touch me at all until he left. What surprised me is not just how much I’ve come to desire they way he owns my pussy, but how much it turns me on to see and hear him put my husband into a more submissive role. As a result what started off as a one night stand to fulfill a fantasy, organically slipped into more of an ongoing cuckold type situation. And I like it!

My husband and I have talked about it as things have progressed and so far he’s been mostly ok with it. I say “mostly” because there have been some times where my new lover has pushed our boundaries. But each time my husband and I have been able to process together and ultimately have some of the hottest sex with each other afterwards.

I know I’m leaving out a lot of details on how things progressed in the 5 (6?) encounters we had prior to COVID, but hopefully I’ve done a fairly good job describing our situation. Since then, we’ve stayed in touch via text so I expect at some point when physical distancing relaxes a bit I’ll get to see and feel him again. I don’t have any friends (besides my husband of course) that I can talk to about this stuff so I welcome any input/comments particularly from other wives with more experience than I. Anything I should look out for when we pick things back up again? Suggestions and safe ways to continue to push boundaries without taking things too far? Again, so far it’s been great! I’m not writing with any complaints, lol! So maybe we just continue on the same path?