In the search for a bull, we've encountered men that use lifestyle names and keep their private lives secret and totally separate.

Then there are others that are quite open and willing to share.

In our case, for security and for general ease of conversation, we've found that it's better to share these details once it's established that we'll be playing together.

Would you be able to share 1. What your procedures are as far as names and sharing details are? 2. Why this is your procedure 3. Lessons learned that changed things for you

I'd love to hear what works and what doesn't for bulls and couples. We are always looking for ways to make the experience better for us and our bull and this is something I've been curious about for a long time.