Question:

For those who have brought a dom/bull in, how has it affected your relationship with your partner? Do you think it brought you 2 closer or further apart?

Some background context:

This is going to sound very cliche, but last night I had one of the most intense experiences ever in our relationship. Long wall of text incoming, be warned!

My gf wants me needy and desperate for her, so she only allows me to cum when we meet on the weekends. She allows me stroke as much as I want so I've been edging all week.

This week she told me I'm only going to get to cum on Sunday.. maybe. We met on Friday and were together for the whole weekend. We pretty much spent the whole time fucking on and off.

On Saturday night, we were in bed and we had been fucking for a while. At that point it's been 6 days since my last orgasm so you can imagine how horny I was. We had been dirty talking about our usual fantasies such as letting other guys fuck her, and us being dominated by a bull.

We both got really into it and I had to stop so many times to stop myself from cumming. After a particularly close call, we took a break and switched positions. She went on top and started riding me slowly.

At that point I was already pretty gooned out and this was when things became very intense.

I asked her whether we should seriously find a bull. She closed her eyes and told me that she really wants it, but is afraid of how it'll change our relationship. She asked what if she loses herself and finds sex with the bull much more satisfying and starts to prefer him.

When I heard that, I got extremely hard and told her that's actually my fantasy and how it only makes it hotter for me. After a long moment of silence, she started telling me about her ex.

She told me that her ex was extremely dominating with her. He made her go over to his place whenever he wanted sex, and wouldn't take no for an answer. She was freeuse to him and he fucked her whenever he wanted.

She said that once, she was asleep and woke up to him forcing his cock into her. She said it was the hottest fucking thing ever and she cummed so hard.

He really took on a Dom/master role fucked her very roughly without caring about what she thinks. He also did things like making her go home without letting her clean up so she had to go back feeling his cum leaking out of her pussy. He would also wipe his cum on her face and make her go out with it still on her.

As she was telling me all this, I could feel her getting extemely wet. She then said that he had anal with her and while it was painful, she actually loved it because it made her feel so much like a slut, like a toy to be used.

She confessed that she loved all the things her ex did to her, and actually really wants to be fucked in the ass again. Which I've never done because I'm not into anal at all.

She has a dildo that she uses often. And now she told me that the reason she likes it so much, is because it feels very similar to her ex. The dildo is bigger and thicker than me. I'm only about 5" while it's almost 7". She said it fills and stretches her so much more.

After hearing all this, initially I couldn't think of what to say. I was so turned on. She was riding me as she was telling me all this, and my cock was so hard inside her. All I could think about was her ex doing all those stuff with her and how much she loved it.

After few moments, I told her that I shared her worries, but I still wanted it. We agreed to take things slow, and instead of looking for a bull, we'll just try stuff with other couples, and maybe a MMF with no dom/bull dynamic. Then only when we're fully comfortable, will we look at bringing a bull into our life.

Question:

For those who have brought a dom/bull in, how has it affected your relationship with your partner? Do you think it brought you 2 closer or further apart?