So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year now. We have been trying new things constantly in this time. Very early on she realised I was more on the submissive side of things. So I would always joke with her about putting me in a chastity cage since we got together. Well about two months ago she called me on my bluff and decided to order one… little did she know this is what I wanted the whole time. So the first one she bought she liked it but didnt love it for a few reasons 1 it was to big and my dick would fall out of it randomly and 2 she didnt like the color. So a month ago she ordered me a new one and she picked one that was a little smaller and pink. I think she realised that I to wanted this and now she's has taken on the roll of my key holder and I couldn't be more happy there's something about give up that control of not being able to cum with your partners permission that I just love. I'm excited to see where this journey leads.