Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Make sure to guarantee consent
"Attackers" make sure, without a shred of doubt that the other individual involved consents to being "taken with out consents", Video Chat, before attack meet up, that's verification, a plain picture of the victim isn't remotely enough. If you are tricked into targeting somebody who isn't consenting to being "taken without consent" it is your fault, no one else's, what you are doing is simply actual rape, expect the full repercussions of such.
This subreddit is strictly 18+
Do not post if you are under 18, and do not post looking for someone under 18. Don't even imply that you are under 18, and do not imply you would be open to interaction with someone under 18, for example using phrases like "young boy," "young girl," or "young teen." If someone under 18 contacts you for CNC interaction, report that person to the moderators and they will be banned.
Posting implies consent to PM
Posting on this sub includes your consent in regard to Private Messages being sent to your account in regards to your post.
Safe Words must be established
Safe Words must be established, with the right, for both parties, once implemented, to remove themselves from the encounter completely. Implementing your safe-word mid encounter is neither shameful nor should it ever be discouraged. If either party refuses the creation of a safe word please report such, as from now on that will be a ban-able offense. If either party refuses to respect the safe word once implemented, please contact the authorities as that crosses the line into actual rape.
Low effort post will be removed
A high quality post is interesting and will include as much detail as possible about the desired encounter. For example, who you are, who you are looking for, where, when, what is involved, to what extent, and what will happen after. Please make sure to be clear in your post and private messages what you want to happen in the encounter.
It is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED that you find a third party "buddy"
It is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED that you find a third party "buddy" to share your plans and update your status with. "Buddies" should be able to aid in either retrieving you or alerting authorities if needed. "Buddy Request" posts are allowed on this subreddit if you are in need of one.
Pictures do not imply consent
If you wish to include a picture with your post, it may only be from the neck down, and it may only be of you. Posting pictures does not communicate consent: as mentioned, pictures can not convey consent, only live video interaction and pre-attack in person meet-ups are acceptable ways to obtain consent.
Any post not relating to IRL con-non-con meeting up will be removed
All posts on this subreddit must relate to in real life (IRL) consensual-non-consent (CNC) meetups. Posts that are only looking for online interaction are not permitted. This subreddit is also not intended for seeking long-term relationships. There are other subreddits for that.
No selling is permitted
This subreddit does not allow the exchange of sex for money, goods, services, or anything of value.
This includes posts seeking "sugar baby," "sugar mommy," "sugar daddy," etc. type arrangements.
There is a ban on intoxicant, substance, and sleep play
There is a ban on intoxicant/substance play, sleep play, and any other condition in which a "safe word," or any other method of retraction of consent, can't reasonably be immediately expressed. If a safe word is inoperable, that is always a problem.
There is a ban regarding any attempt to coordinate CNC interaction for someone else
Due to difficulties in confirming consent, users may not coordinate CNC interaction for any other person, no matter the relation. This includes seeking interactions involving more than one victim.
If another user seeks to organize a third-party interaction with you, please report it to the moderators.
Report any questionable behavior of any kind
If you see any questionable behavior of any kind, such as safe word refusal, release of personal info, general distraction from the purpose of this sub, or none-thematic aggression, please report such users and we'll try our best to address it as soon as possible. Moderators should only contact you in reply to the message sent to the moderation team. If a moderator contacts you via a private message, acting as a moderator, inform u/tthrowaways123 directly as that is a major violation of policy.
One post per 24 hours
Only one post is allowed per 24 hours. Deleting your most recent post to hide your posting frequency is also not allowed.
One post per 7 days
Only one post is allowed per 7 days. Deleting your most recent post to hide your posting frequency is not allowed.
Do not share social media or chat accounts in posts or comments
This is an anti-spam, anti-scam, and anti-doxxing measure.
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