I see a lot of negativity on here about couples posting about wanting threesome, or polyam/ENM peeps looking for additional partners. But as a bi woman, I also see the guys who seem to think it’s a great idea to create a “female” profile looking for women. They aren’t cross-dressing or in any way pretending to be women except that they have specifically told Bumble that they are a woman.

Just stop. On its face this is a stupid idea. Women looking for women are not going to look at an obviously male profile and say I think I’ve changed my mind! I’ll be interested in a man after all!!

Im bi, so I seek out men, but when I’m seeking women it’s just desperate and gross that men would post this way.

Rant over.