My ex fiance recently dumped me over text after a two and a half year long relationship. He told me he hopes there isn't any bad blood and that he wants to remain friends however I don't think I can... Thinking back on the relationship now, I feel like he treated me awfully and I was just overlooking it because of love. One of my friends pointed out to me that during our relationship he'd been online claiming I was abusive... I don't want to diminish those feelings but whenever I asked him if there was anything I did that bothered him he wouldn't tell me and would instead tell his online friends leading them to think I'm abusive... I feel so sick to my stomach about this whole situation and I don't know what to do. I even found out he cheated on me a few weeks before he dumped me. I just feel so lost and confused and scared and I need advice.