Hey, guys. It's been four months since I got dumped by my ex whose I had been with for 1.5 years and I wanted to write a little bilan on how it is going, and let people that are going through it, right now, know that it is going to get better. You're going to be okay. I swear.

I used to cry all the time, when seeing pictures of her or hearing from her. Then, I moved to anger for a brief period of time. And now, I'm just completely unbothered. I can see her on my thread and just feel no emotion at all. It may be a bit bold saying I don't have any feelings for her anymore, but I genuinely feel like I do.

I'm happy being able to live for myself. When we were together, my life would revolve around her completely, and I'm now glad I got out of this pattern. I've learned about what I don't want for my next relationship, from myself and from my partner as well. All in all, I feel like I've grown from the experience and I learned not to have regrets.

Basically: I know how it may feel, for most of you, right now. But you are going to be fine. You are going to be more than fun. Possibly even happy with the outcome (I know, unbelievable, right) This person was not the one. If they were, they wouldn't have let you go. It's as simple as that.