I had an ex from last year reach out a few days ago saying he’s sorry for how he treated me. He was pretty awful to me and has said that before so I ignored the message and don’t miss him or even want him as a friend.

My one ex from 4 years ago…I had moved to a new state and he made me promise to not sleep with anyone while I was there. But he slow faded me and I gave up after 2 years of trying to catch his attention. It’s like he almost let me move to new state to break up with me. He was in Florida and I was in Pennsylvania and I moved to Utah even though we had talked about me moving to Florida. My mental health was bad so I left PA and he didn’t say anything until I was in Utah. Like wtf? If you wanted me you should have told me but he didn’t.

So I tried for a year on and off and didn’t get much of a response. I had eventually started to date someone else but it wasn’t serious. I finally deleted him from Facebook in 2021 because I didn’t want to go through another year of being heartbroken.

I’ve dated and loved other people since. But never loved anyone like him. I found out he started his own business and got a woman pregnant in the beginning of 2021. So basically while I was mourning he was fucking another woman!

He reached out today. He said he misses me and thinks of me a lot and hopes I’m doing well. So weird how it works. I missed him so much at one point it was so bad…like I had heart palpitations because of it and it was majorly stressing me out but I knew reaching out wouldn’t have helped me at the time so I didn’t.

I just told him I’m doing amazing and I hope he is too. If he brings up trying to see me or what happened I’m going to tell him he didn’t put in effort so I also stopped and even worse when I told people in the new state that I was with someone in Florida they laughed in my face and told me he was sleeping with other women and I had defended him but they were correct. And that I know he couldn’t even communicate or stay loyal. It won’t hurt me to tell him a little about himself!

Your exes may reach out eventually and I hope you are like me and know your worth!