It's really annoying cause I have trouble explain what my best friend means to me without the "fp part" or how much I'm proud of myself because my jealousy issues are almost non-existent now, and that's was hard work. I talked to my psychiatrist who's one of the most trained one in my city , talking about therapy with borderlines and he didn't know. My fp actually found a psychiatrist who did know about that and she (the psychiatrist) asked to my fp A LOT of question about our relationship because she really never met an fp before (they weren't doctor and patient anyway) . It's really absurd, because when I found about fp EVERYTHING made sense to me...I didn't feel wrong anymore, I didn't have to question myself "it is love? Why am I so close to this person in this way?" and it helps my borderline friends here to figure out a lot of things when I explained to them. My relationship with my best friend/fp is great, and that's because we learned about fp too, this had help a lot. Even my relationship with my girlfriend is better because I immediately talked to her about fp and explain to her why I was this close to my best friend. I think that here in my birth country this aspect of borderline is unknown.