I have come out and pretty much socially transitioned everywhere except at home. (I live with my parents temporarily) I’m am the happiest I’ve probably ever been except for one thing. I’m starting to get incredibly anxious.

I’m moving and starting hormones this month, and I plan to come out to my parents the day I move. It would be unsafe to come out while living here. I already know they will not be supportive. My mom has picked up on my masculine tendencies and has said she will never accept me if I were to tell her I was trans. I really don’t care anymore. I am who I am and that will not change just bc she doesn’t like it.

The thing I’m anxious about is it being a big dramatic thing that I have to deal with. I don’t like confrontation. Also, I don’t want to deal with my mom bullying me like she did when I came out as a lesbian. Is there anyway to make this a bit smoother, or do I have to just deal with it?