As the title says, I struggle to stay hard with women. I’ve had a decent amount of sex with men recently but recently I’ve also got nothing from it ( feeling empty and sad afterwards) so I wanted to take a break and go cold turkey.

This year I’ve hooked up with 2 women, twice I couldn’t stay hard. The attraction for women is much stronger than it is for men. First time I didn’t give it a second thought. It happens. Second time I remembered what happened before and instantly went soft. It’s so embarrassing. I didn’t have this problem hooking up with the fem guys I was with in the past. I’m not sure if it’s due to the amount of porn I watch ( masturbate once a day ) or just the fact I overthink it. If anyone was through something similar some advice would be great.

Thank you.