I am a 33 y/o black male who is openly Bi and married to a wonderful woman. We are roughly 3 years apart in age, have children, and have great careers. I told my wife that I was bisexual when we first started dating (7 years ago). She didn’t care and admitted that she thought I was Gay. Not because I was feminine or gave off a gay persona, but because she was bi herself and felt that the connection/attraction was through kindred spirits (if you will). Long story short, we dated, got married had two kids in the process (in addition to our daughters from her previous marriage). I’m saying all of this to say, men be transparent and honest. I will say, that after my first marriage, I didn’t believe I would find a woman or partner that would accept me for me. A lot of times the bi community is looked at as selfish or indecisive due to us having an attraction to both sides of the traditional binary system… when in actuality, we are simply, attracted to what we like. That’s it. Nothing extra. Not indecisive or selfish, sexually driven, or any other negative opinion of us. Finding your person should be your priority, not satisfying the perceptions of the world. I hope that through all of your efforts, traumas, and self-concepts, you gain confidence in who you are as a person. You love yourself for your uniqueness, you live your truths, and you do it in a damn good fashion! So, as I say, do YOUR work until it becomes YOUR truth! Speaking life into you all!

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