Are you a boss lady looking to explore your hidden, kinky, submissive side? Do you need to sometimes have all that power taken away behind closed doors where you can allow yourself to be guided, controlled, and trained by a dominant man deserving of your submission? Have you struggled to connect with other likeminded people and would just love to chat with someone who gets it?

I am a fun, relaxed, experienced Dom. Outside of kink, I am well educated and professionally successful with a happy life. Stats: 47yo, 5’11, broad shoulders, strong hands. Never married, no kids.

As a Dom, I aspire to be respectful, trustworthy, and project an energy that evokes trust and enables emotional vulnerability. My big themes are control, personal growth, erotic humiliation, and predicament mindfuckery. I’m a strong believer in aftercare and not taking bdsm too seriously. This is supposed to be for fun after all :-)

I am here looking for a play partner who might enjoy my special brand of dominance. I love to control a sub by making everyday decisions for her pussy and not letting her make them for herself. Every sub has different buttons to push, but for you this might involve me taking charge of your sex toys, orgasms, panties, peeing, shaving, or anything else you think might be hot. Follow the rules and I’ll reward you with praise and some fairly amazing oral sex (I love eating pussy almost as much as I love controlling it)

The challenge and enjoyment of this for me comes from pushing the boundaries of what you are willing to surrender. The enjoyment for you can be whatever you want it to be, but my guess is that you are a people pleaser who loves being told she is a good girl. You probably think being trained as someone’s obedient little slut is very hot, and having your pussy used as the instrument of control just makes it hotter.

If that is you, message me and introduce yourself. You don’t need to explain why you think all this is so hot, just give me a little background on yourself. I’m open to all ages and types, but I am especially interested in 30-45 year olds, brunettes, and smart girls with a decent sense of humor.