Hello!

How's it going? It's been some year so far, hasn't it?

... yeah. sigh

I'm looking to take my mind off of things in the real world and guessing that many of you are out there are looking for the same thing. Perhaps we can help each other out?

About me: 42-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is eager to talk about something besides software development. I'm single, never been married and have no kids. I enjoy reading, practicing guitar, drawing, photography, and switching between super depressing news articles on the internet and cute animal videos. In the bedroom I enjoy being dominant once I'm comfortable; I think D/s requires chemistry and trust to be established with a partner rather than something to be jumped into immediately.

I'm monogamous in both serious and casual/purely physical relationships; I like to focus all my attention on one intimate partner at a time and I'm interested in women who feel the same way. I have nothing against polygamy; it just doesn't work for me personally.

What I'm Looking For: In a recent post here, the writer stated "I don't want to be a slut. I want to be your slut." That's exactly the kind of woman I'm looking for.

Looking for someone local to California at the very least, but open to chat with someone online about kinky stuff with the possibility of meeting up in person at some point. Also would like to exchange SFW pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction is important and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks.

Please let me know a little bit about yourself before jumping in with the kinky stuff! I've noticed that I tend to get along better with those who consider themselves one or more of the following: nerdy / bookish / artistic / creative / professional. Always open to meeting someone who inspires me to add new qualities to that list though!

As you may have guessed, I'm most compatible sexually with women who are submissive in the bedroom and

• enjoy being treated roughly

• enjoy being degraded verbally

• are eager to please

but this list is not exhaustive and I'll be more than happy to discuss others as well as get into the specifics of what I've mentioned above.

Random SFW Facts

• My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.

• Last book read: Currently in the middle of The Dictionary of Body Language. I've also been reading a lot about self-publishing erotica on Amazon lately so to research I got a Kindle Unlimited subscription and have been reading a bunch of trashy fantasy erotica. Yes, this is my deep dark secret I can only reveal to strangers on the internet :-D

• Current Programming Side Project: For all you nerds/writers out there: I'm working on a random name generator that uses names taken from publicly available Social Security Administration and U.S. Census name data. Can't think of a name for a character in your novel/screenplay? Now you won't have to! :-)

• Favorite beverage: Mandarin orange herbal tea

• Last Song Obsessively Listened to on Repeat: Carnival by Natalie Merchant. For some reason, about once a year I get in the mood to hear that song over and over and over.

• Last animal activity watched: The bears at Brooks Falls catching salmon!

Looking forward to hearing from you!