Hello! This ended up being longer than expected, so proceed at your own risk.

I've known about bdsm for a looong time, so I'm certain this is something I need in my life and I just cannot have a "normal" relationship with someone. I'm not super experienced, I've met a few subs over the years but most didn't last long, also most were online. Still, I do know that I'm looking for something meaningful and to meet for future partner/submissive in life =)

Some things about me:
30 years old, quite introverted (not shy) and a bit of a homebody. I'd rather go on a car trip than travel abroad, and I really enjoying doing stuff at home: board games, crafts (I really really like making things on my own), movies, homemade meals, maybe a picnic in the living room if we're feeling silly. Been living in the UK (south-east) since right before the lockdown, so I haven't really experienced much of it yet.
I'm 178cm (5"10) and about 85kg (187lbs). So I'm not fit, but I'm not exactly overweight/fat either. I do need to exercise more, maybe we could go hiking? I've done it some times in the past and always enjoyed it, but that was a long time ago. No drugs, smoking or any of that, and I would appreciate the same in return.
I'm an engineer and very much into anything tech related, love computers too. Video games are a big part of my life and I would love to find someone to share that with, specially if we can play together: from anything coop to chill games like stardew valley or ark.

You probably noticed that I haven't really mentioned anything sexual, that's because I'm really looking for a meaningful connection here. Sex is not really a priority of mine, and I just cannot even enjoy that if there's no connection between us. I want someone I can talk to about anything, someone I can have fun with while discussing the silliest of topics, let's stay on the phone till 3am arguing about why pancakes on the moon are better than on earth. I want someone who will think of me first when she sees a funny post in reddit and wants to share it. But also thinks of me first when she had a rough day at work and needs being comforted.

I didn't forget though, here's the important kinky stuff: bondage is my favorite kink and it's absolutely essential, I hope you can share my love for it. The next big ones are petplay (in particular kitten) and orgasm control/denial (I'm really into denial, specially when mixed with edging). I also enjoy protocol/rules.
Main limits for me are: asphyxiation, scat/pee, needles, blood.

About you:
Around 25-29 years old, unfortunately I don't feel comfortable with big age gaps, so below that would be too much for me. I'm okay with online, as long as we know that it'll become a real-life thing at some point in the future, I couldn't do an LDR forever.
Bonus points if you're a night owl (so am I).
Want something 100% monogamous.
You consider yourself a needy/clingy pet, I quite like and I promise you won't have to wait long for a reply as long as you do the same with me.
You are looking for a Dom/Master/Owner, I don't like sticking to one label only but I would say that mix describes me well. I want to be your owner, from taking responsibility for the important/difficult decisions in our dynamic to being your emotional support and always being there for you, I'm actually particularly good at this since I'm a very stable person mentally. I want you to eventually become my property, my collared submissive, and I will make my best to make sure you feel safe with me and comfortable with just being yourself.
Ideally our dynamic would progress to something 24/7 with time, I'm aware of how much trust and time this would take, but I'm happy to put in the effort. I don't have much experience with TPE, although it's something I'm curious of. The non-sexual side of BDSM is very important to me, even more important I would say.

If you've made it this far, thank you! I know that was a lot but I just had a lot to say. Chatting with me won't be that bad, I promise!
Anyway, send me a message if you any of this caught your eye. Let's take things slow and get to know each other, voice calls while playing games are the best for this! =)