-I'm 32, American, straight and a switch. New-ish to BDSM, but it is a very important part of my life and self-expression. Demisexual, which means that I need an emotional bond and chemistry before sexual stuff can occur. There also needs to be at least some physical attraction. I'm polyamorous and have a partner, but am looking for an additional male partner, ideally between the ages of 27-36. I use a wheelchair. I'm very shy so I won't be very talkative at first.
Have I covered all the potential dealbreakers? I hope so.
-My vanilla interests are reading (high fantasy and nonfiction history lately), writing, roleplaying video games like Dragon Age and Mass Effect, history, films, psychology, social justice, and shipwrecks. I recently got a vinyl record player so I've been trying to expand my collection. Joy Division, New Order, Skald, The HU and Evanescence are some (but not all) of my favorite bands. I'm a huge fan of A Song of Ice and Fire, Tolkien and Dungeons and Dragons.
-As far as my kinks are concerned, I am a very gentle switch with a bratty streak, whether I'm the domme or sub. I want my partner to feel safe, cared for and comfortable in whatever dynamic we have and will do everything I can to facilitate that. Pain/humiliation/degradation--physically or otherwise--as of right now is off the table and a very hard limit. My primary kink is pet play, specifically puppy play. I would be happy to be your puppy or your owner. Collaring is something I take very seriously and don't do lightly; for me it is a symbol of loyalty and commitment. I don't like jumping into play right off the bat; if you're looking for something purely sexual, I can't provide that for you. I am only looking for a long-term, lasting connection. Play partners need not apply.
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