Hey there, hope you're all having a great day.

I guess I've always been on the kinky side without actually realizing it. A few years ago I stumbled upon erotic hypnosis and this was so much more exciting to me than any other kind of porn I ever watched. Actually, it didn't even feel like porn to me in the beginning since I associated porn with sex scenes involving at least two people. Anyway, this was a game changer for me and has been on my mind ever since. When I gave it more thought, I noticed that even as a kid I found things like hypnosis, brainwashing or power exchange very enticing. Okay, this sentence sounds weird, please let me explain. As a kid I watched an episode of a cartoon where a mind control helmet was involved and the thought of having a device like that or generally having control over somebody's mind was very interesting to me. At the time those thoughts were of course in no way sexual, I just recognized at one point that this kink goes way back and is somehow deeply ingrained into my brain.

After some research I found out that this isn't as uncommon as I thought and that a big part of BDSM is just that: exchanging power and taking or giving up control, depending on which position you are in. Up until now I never had the chance to explore this with somebody and would like to change that. So even though I admittedly don't have high hopes given that a) I'm a dude and b) I'm from Germany, I want to try my luck in this sub and maybe find somebody who wants to begin this journey with me. It would be nice to have somebody to explore with but I would also gladly be introduced by a woman with experience in this regard. Since I don't have any real world experience it is hard for me to pinpoint what I like exactly, but I'll list what I know so far.

Kinks: JOI, worship, power exchange, slave training, hypnosis/brainwashing/mind control, smoking, edging, anal play Limits: scat, blood, anything illegal, harsh humiliation

I think I'm a sub leaning switch but both sides of the coin are really enticing to me. I like the thought of giving up control and being submissive to my partner as well as being in charge and having a sub to control and command myself.

I'd like to quickly note that just because I'm new does in no way mean I like to be belittled or talked down to. If you can't respect me - inside or outside of this dynamic - I'm not going to tolerate that. Trust and respect are absolutely essential to me, I would never want to cross anyones limits and expect the same from my partner.

A little bit about myself: I am 175cm (5"10), beard, tattoos on my arms, blue eyes, skinny/fit and currently growing my hair out. It may sound arrogant, but I think I'm at least not unattractive. Music is insanely important to me, both listening as well as making. Apart from that I like videogames, politics and society related topics, travelling, DIY electronics, hiking and volleyball.

Ideally we would have good chemistry outside of an established dynamic. I want to be able to have engaging conversations and in the best case scenario establish something long term. Of course it would be ideal if you were in Germany as well but I'm also open to an online dynamic.

If this sounds interesting to you, don't hesitate to send me a DM or contact me via reddit chat. I'm fairly active here and will do my best to answer everything as quickly as possible.